What Forgiveness Truly Means

Psalm 103:8: The Lord is merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in mercy. (NKJV) Psalm 103:6: The Lord executes righteousness and justice for all who are oppressed. (NKJV) In my earlier days as a born-again Christian, I greatly struggled with forgiveness. And one thing that I do believe the Holy Spirit has been bringing to my remembrance here …

How Satan Perverts Forgiveness Into a Weapon

"No weapon formed against you shall prosper..." -- Isaiah 54:17a (NKJV) "Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, 'Vengeance is Mine, I will repay," says the Lord. -- Romans 12:19 (NKJV) Back when I was a teenage girl growing up, I was in emotional agony constantly over …

Worm Theology Causes Abuse to Thrive. Here’s Why.

"And the word of the Lord came to me, saying, 'Son of man, prophesy against the shepherds of Israel, prophesy and say to them, ‘Thus says the Lord God to the shepherds: Woe to the shepherds of Israel who feed themselves! Should not the shepherds feed the flocks? You eat the fat and clothe yourselves with the wool; you slaughter the fatlings, but you do …

Special Prayer Request for Abuse Victims and Survivors

As the title of this evening's blog post says, I have a very special prayer request I believe the good Lord has laid on my heart. Regardless if the Rapture happens tonight or tomorrow -- the last day of the Feast of Trumpets -- or not, it is truly undeniable that Christ's return for His …

The Truth About Emotional Incest and Emotional Abuse. It’s A Lot Worse Than It May Seem.

I know everyone reading this knows about physical abuse and sexual abuse. Of all the different kinds of abuse there are, it’s physical abuse and sexual abuse we hear about the most. But even today, in 2023, not all people realize that emotional abuse is just as heinous and just as destructive as physical and …

Cui Bono?

I remember one day several months ago reading a comment from a professing Christian in the YouTube comments section how they kept praying to God to bless their enemies and how they saw God do it over and over again. As someone who has had the Biblical doctrine of forgiveness twisted and used against me …

Entitled to Forgiveness?

If there is any one thing that so many evangelicals BADLY miss the mark about, it’s the issue of forgiveness. Evangelical churches and individual professing Christians are notorious for twisting the Biblical doctrine of forgiveness in a way that enables abusers. The heinous mindset of worm theology in many evangelical churches has twisted so many …

Abusive Parents Must NOT Be Honored. Here’s Why.

For anyone who was abused by professing Christians in childhood, I have no doubt that you’ve had the Fifth Commandment twisted and used against you. I’m sure you’ve been told that you still have to honor your parents even if they abused you or enabled your abuser when you were a child. The vast majority …

The Invisible Prejudice

Over the past couple of years, I've become aware of very disturbing teachings and ideas going around in the church concerning the status of women and especially children. As the daughter of an emotionally and spiritually abusive egg donor myself, I've had a real interest in the true heart of God concerning the Fifth Commandment, …

Stupidity in the Church

There is no easy way for me to say what I have to say in this post, so I'll refrain from beating around the bush and just come right to the point: the church in today's world has become appallingly stupid! Did I just say that? Did I just insult the church, the very body …